is often said that the "father" of our church is Mr. Elias Betzios. This title
was bestowed upon him because of the following circumstances:
Betzios was a longtime board member of the neighboring St. Demetrios Church of
Astoria. When he relocated his family to the Whitestone area, the distance was
too far to worship at St. Demetrios. It had been his lifelong-dream to establish
a new church some day. In his conversations with Archbishop Iakovos, he was encouraged
to pursue this dream and establish a new parish in the Whitestone area.
This goal was furthered along by a letter sent to the Archdiocese by Argiro Mari
pleading that a new church be established in the Whitestone area. Archbishop Iakovos
at this point gave Mr. Betzios his blessing to proceed with a new parish.
With the help of his real estate broker and friend, Theodore Theodorou, they launched
a long search for a suitable structure. For approximately two years the search
continued until they finally came upon the existing Epworth Methodist Church of
Whitestone. The asking price for the structure was $130,000. At first, the small
Methodist congregation did not want to sell their building but they were in financial
distress and they were finally persuaded by their legal council, Mr. Kravor, to
accept a deal. In June 1975, Mr. Betzios initially offered $10,000 deposit to
hold the building. The Methodist's counteroffer was for $20,000 deposit with an
option to buy the building for $130,000. This was a large sum of money. Finally,
an agreement was reached to lease the building for $650 per month with the option
to buy it in five years. The Methodists returned the $10,000 initial deposit which
Mr. Betzios in turn deposited in a new church treasury account. Upon signing the
agreement, Mr. Betzios formed a religious corporation (October 24, 1975) to represent
the new church. The group consisted of Elias Betzios, Nicoletta Chrysschoos, Fotios
Galitsis, Christopher Raptis, Theodore Theodore.
September 14, 1975 (the Holy Day of The Elevation Of The Precious Cross) during
a name day celebration for Mr. Betzios' son Stavro, the door bell rang and Mr.
Kravor, the attorney representing the Epworth Methodist Church, presented Mr.
Betzios with the key to the church's front door. The name day festivities were
interrupted as Mr. Betzios along with his two sons, his wife, mother and grandmother
drove the short distance to the "new" church. Their first offering was a simple
icon and a candle. Since it was the Holy Day of The Elevation Of The Precious
Cross, Mr. Betzios thought it was only fitting to name the new parish Holy Cross
of Whitestone. The name was acquired because of the day, not after his son as
some may think.
acquired structure had a simple table and no altar. Mr. Betzios contacted all
his friends and all the trade people he knew informing them of the new parish
and asking for their assistance. Most of the alterations to the church interior
were done by the Parish Council and their spouses. They broke open a wall, created
an Agia Trapeza painted and cleaned the acquired structure. Mr. Betzios also assigned
work to an iconographer who created the first icons for the newly acquired parish.
He asked all his friends to contribute by buying one as a donation. He even went
as far as to carve the wood cross for the altar by himself by tracing it from
a cross he borrowed from another parish. Mr. John Delagrammaticas remembers being
the first to donate $1,000 to buy the first bible. Inevitably, the funds were
allocated to buy 2x4's for construction repairs which were more fundamental.
Christmas Day, December 25, 1975 the doors of Holy Cross Greek Orthodox Church
of Whitestone were opened for mass for the first time. The first liturgy was conducted
by Father John Skandalios who was hired on a temporary basis. Fundraising was
begun immediately with family-style get-togethers. One year passed before the
Holy Cross Church was officially recognized by the Archdiocese. Slowly as the
news reached families of the Whitestone area, the community began to grow and
prosper. By the second year, three children had been enrolled in the Greek Afternoon
School program under the direction of Ms. Moschokarfis.
The rest is history.